It takes a long time to grow an old friend.
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us,
we often find that it is those who,
instead of giving advice,
solutions,
or cures,
have chosen rather to share our pain
and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.
The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion,
who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement,
who can tolerate not knowing,
not curing,
not healing
and face with us the reality of our powerlessness,
that is a friend who cares.
~Henri Nouwen
Let us be grateful to people who make us happy,
they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.
~Marcel Proust
It is the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.
~Marlene Dietrich